Influence no one to do wrong

I suppose a sufi seldom consciously wants to influence anybody to do wrong. But I suppose wrongdoing starts by influencing the thoughts and attitudes of another?
To watch my words in every situation - even when I am so frustrated that I feel I could explode, is a good beginning :-))

The chinese say that the words that come out of your mouth, enter the ears of another. And every word spoken must finish its task, says Murshid...

Next time I will explode very silently - behind the closed door at my office.